My child has big feelings and I do not know what is underneath
You can see the behaviour, but working out what is driving it can feel much harder.
HELP ME UNDERSTANDWhen you’re looking at a behaviour and you’re thinking,
“What am I supposed to do now?”
The El Boden Method helps parents, carers and educators read the clues, understand what may be underneath and choose a practical next step.


Created by El Boden, educator with nearly 20 years in education, helping home and school work from a shared understanding.
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You can see the behaviour, but working out what is driving it can feel much harder.
HELP ME UNDERSTANDWhen children cannot find the words, their behaviour often does the talking for them.
HELP THEM EXPRESS ITSmall changes can feel huge when a child does not yet have the tools to manage what is happening.
HELP WITH CHANGEWhen a child seems different at home and school, understanding the whole picture matters.
BRING HOME AND SCHOOL TOGETHERThree resources you can use today, with no cost.
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FREEThe El Boden Method is built on three steps